Flash Remoting

So I've been working on a CMS now for a few days. I did an entire piece using Flash Remoting...
Come to find out it won't work on my host's server... as have many others. I sent an email to them and the response is typical. It seems nobody is willing to host Flash Remoting because it is way to costly.

My message to Macromedia is this > $1000 per CPU is a deterrant. Developers that want to use remoting cannot, simply because their hosts will shell out the cash so each of their servers can use a little .dll. Coldfusion is expensive also, but that's another story completely!

MM : Get with the program or you will get left behind by countless developers and designers.